John A Bender age: 55 Known as: John Abender Related to:Caitlyn Bender, 57 Has lived in:Langhorne, PA Mandan, ND Middletown, CT Abingdon, MD John P Bender age: 31 Related to:John Bender Has lived in:Middletown, RI Wilton, CT John R Bender age: 59 Related to:Kurt Bender, 69 Marybeth Bender Patricia Ruffo, 74 Has lived in:Willimantic, CT Lebanon, CT John P Bender Has lived in:Wilton, CT Stamford, CT John E Bender Deceased Known as: Johne Bender Related to:Nicole Pease Lorraine Stamas, 89 Has lived in:Naples, FL Stamford, CT Cranford, NJ